現在回想起來，卻覺得過去是那麼勇敢，那麼執著。

In retrospect， I feel that I was so brave and persistent in the past。

正如胡適所說：“你不能做我的詩，正如我不能做你的夢。”

As Hu Shi said， “you can‘t do my poetry， just as I can’t do your dream。”

抬頭一看，天上的太陽，一如既往地耀眼。

Looking up， the sun in the sky is as dazzling as ever。

情話對情侶來說非常重要。

Love words are very important to lovers。

但在中年，你正處於人生的起點，你必須考慮安全問題。

But in middle age， you are at the beginning of your life。 You must consider safety。

也就是說他過去一直在用各種方式照顧你。例如，注意自己的情緒，記住自己的喜好，在每個週年紀念日給自己一個驚喜。

That means he used to take care of you in various ways。 For example， pay attention to your emotions， remember your preferences， and surprise yourself on each anniversary。

有人說：“所謂快樂的生活，一定是指安靜的生活，原因是隻有在安靜的氛圍中，才能產生生活的真正快樂。”

Someone said： “the so-called happy life must mean a quiet life。 The reason is that only in a quiet atmosphere can we have real happiness in life。”

你知道，一個人如果沒有經歷過什麼怎麼能改變這麼多呢？

You know， how can a person change so much if he hasn‘t experienced anything？

因為深愛過，所以才矜持。女人你要懂，懂得控制自己的男人，才更適合你。

Because I loved deeply， I was reserved。 Women， you have to understand that men who know how to control themselves are more suitable for you。

當你真正愛一個人的時候，你總會下意識地關注關於他的訊息，總會下意識地關心他的安全，總是很容易抓住他情緒的起伏變化。

When you really love someone， you will always subconsciously pay attention to the news about him， subconsciously care about his safety， and it is always easy to grasp the ups and downs of his emotions。